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PROVIDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGE (9)
LORD’S DAY, SEPTEMBER 1
Ruth 4:1-10
Matthew 16:14-26
“…and whosoever will
lose his life for my sake
shall find it.”
PROVIDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGE (9)
The nearer kinsman was afraid to “mar” his inheritance, but not Boaz. When Boaz was offered the opportunity to redeem Elimelech’s property and marry Ruth, he did not hesitate, neither did he bargain or seek for any concession. He called upon the elders and the people to be witnesses as he made a formal declaration to fulfil the conditions that the nearer kinsman declined as he accepted the shoe presented to him.
“…Ye are witnesses this day…” (Ruth 4:9-10). This phrase is repeated twice, in verse 9 and at the end of verse 10. As a good man, Boaz, apart from showing virtues of benevolence and generosity, also showed that he was careful to maintain his cause and reputation in judgment. The character and property of many a good man have been lost because of entering into shady and unwarranted deals. In life, there will be conmen and those who would seek to take advantage of the benevolence and generosity of others. There are also those who seek to tarnish the reputation and good name of others. In light of this, discretion in dealings is vital to everyone. Above board and open dealings are a security to those who engage in such, while secret and under-the-table dealings become a snare to those who engage in it. Boaz’s character and sacrifice were established because everything was done in the presence of witnesses. Nothing could be distorted or denied.
“…I have bought all that was Elimelech’s and all that was Chilion’s and Mahlon’s…” (Ruth 4:9). The statement of Boaz was one that was very sobering, especially in light of the nearer kinsman’s refusal. The reason he gave was about protecting his inheritance, yet they were talking of the inheritance of their deceased brother. Psalm 39:6 presents man’s life as a dream during which one gathers possessions, yet, he is not in control as to whose hands they will fall into after his death. Boaz, on the other hand, seemed to be doing that which was considered wasting and endangering his inheritance while securing his dead brother’s lineage and name. Yet, it was he who was making the right choice.
THOUGHT: (Read Psalm 39:6.)
PRAYER: Grant me, Father, grace and discretion in dealings with others.