JANUARY 29

PROVERBS 26:22

WORDS CAN WOUND DEEPLY

Fire can burn our fingers and a cut from a penknife can also cause a lot of pain. That is why we are warned not to play with fire. Similarly, we must exercise care when using a penknife. But, isn’t it strange that words that come out of our mouth can hurt and not only hurt but hurt deeply? The Bible says they can hurt right to the stomach. Can you imagine that?

We have already learnt that God hates gossipy and lying lips. We have also noted that words of truth and love can be so pleasant. They can be used to cheer up the downhearted and give hope to the hopeless. Today, we are reminded that the words of lies and anger can hurt people deeply.

Words of a talebearer often cause quarrels between friends. They are like oil added to fire. That is why friends must not allow small misunderstanding to spoil their friendship. A prompt apology can sometimes do wonders. So children, if you know a friend is angry with you, go straightaway to him or her to apologise or clear up any misunderstanding. is will prevent you from losing a friend

Compare the pair of sentences that have the same message and cross out the one that will hurt:
A. Mummy, you always don’t care for me.
B. Mummy, you must be busy but may I have your attention for a while?
 
A. I think I prefer you in the red dress you wore last Tuesday.
B. is dress makes you look very ugly.

A. Why is your house so messy, you lazybones?
B. Do you need some help with tidying up your room?

A. You are so lazy! You are good for nothing.
B. Can you help me with the dishes please?

Thought: We must be careful with the words we use.
Prayer: Forgive me Heavenly Father, for hurting others with the words I used. Fill me with Your love and make my speech gracious always. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.