JANUARY 4, Proverbs 1:10-15

“A teen was slashed by a gang of teens armed with parangs.” This recent news headline shocked many. Did it shock you? It resulted from a gang fight. How did gangs come about? Gangs are usually formed by lonely teens who band up with other lonely girls and boys to provide companionship and feel a sense of belonging. Being part of a gang makes them appear cool as it guarantees support and protection in case of attack. Many gang activities involve vices like smoking, drug abuse, vandalism and even violent crimes.

You may say, “I am not that stupid to be involved.” But think again. Proverbs 1:10 says, “...if sinners entice thee, consent thou not.” It is a warning to Christian boys and girls against bad company. No matter how young or old we are, we can be easily influenced whether you believe it or not. Look around you and see how your friends and you tend to dress alike, like the same kind of music, speak like each other or even have the same habits.

God wants us to be good. He knows how easily we can be influenced. So, He warns us to choose our friends carefully. Beware of those who are proud, lazy, dishonest, disobedient and are troublemakers. If someone asks you to throw your homework aside and go and watch a movie instead, don’t say yes. If someone asks you to take some money from your parents’ drawer, be sure to avoid him. If someone offers to help you cheat in an exam, report him to your teacher. You ought to be friendly, kind and helpful to everybody but don’t make friends with anyone who tempts you to sin.

Draw a picture of your best friend. Write down three of his or her good qualities or habits. 

Thought: True friends are treasures, precious and rare.

Prayer: Father in Heaven, help me to be a true friend to others by obeying Your commandments. Keep me from falling into bad company but keep me close to the Lord Jesus. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.