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PROVIDENCE, CHOICES, AND FAMILY LIFE (13)
FRIDAY, AUGUST 16
Ruth 3:6-13

Proverbs 22:1-4

 

“A good name is better than

precious ointment.”

 

PROVIDENCE, CHOICES, AND FAMILY LIFE (13)
 
Boaz assured Ruth that he would do his best to fulfil her request. He also gave reasons for accepting to do what she had requested. The worth that he adduced was in her virtue. Many in this age seek help, assistance and even marriage not out of virtue, but ungodly influence and pressure. This has led to seeking those who are influential in getting things done. But the vulnerable and poor (who have no influence) are being overlooked and exploited. Moreover, many have in turn taken to teach their children and youths that if they want to get ahead in life, and get their way through life, they need to be clever, rich or well-connected. Christians and spiritual virtues are therefore ignored and not cultivated. Boaz accepted Ruth’s request because he valued Christian and godly virtues.
 
“…all the city of my people do know that thou art a virtuous woman” (Ruth 3:11). Ruth’s request was not just a request for marriage, it was a legal matter that involved the property that belonged to Elimelech and his sons. In her request, she not only looked for a husband, but also requested for an advocate to present her case before the elders of the land. No wonder Boaz in his response told her that he would do “all that thou requirest.” Cases that involve property are very emotive and messy. Some of them end badly as in the case regarding Naboth’s vineyard. Boaz assured Ruth of a favourable outcome because of her virtue and character. It is sad that in this age, virtue and character are taking a back seat to money, power and influence in matters of justice.
 
“…there is a kinsman nearer than I” (Ruth 3:12). Even after declaring that Ruth was kind to choose him, Boaz did not hide the truth from Ruth: Someone else had precedence over him. If it was of God, he would marry Ruth, but it could not be by deceit. The one who had precedence would be given priority. Those who acknowledge God’s hand must acknowledge His sovereign will, and thus abide by the law. Many who elope because of obstacles or opposition to their relationship often undermine their faith in God, and some end up with regrets later on.
 
THOUGHT: God controls everything; I obey Him in everything.

PRAYER: “Ask the Saviour to help you. He is willing to aid you.”

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