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AS A FATHER DOTH HIS CHILDREN
THURSDAY, OCTOBER 23
1 Thessalonians 2:11

Proverbs 4:1-4

 

“…we exhorted and comforted

and charged every one of you…”

 

AS A FATHER DOTH HIS CHILDREN
 
Paul here is portrayed as a father who was deeply concerned about the state of his children. He used three words in 1 Thessalonians 2:11 to describe this paternal relationship that he had with them.
 
First, he “exhorted” them. This word carries the idea of a gentle, affectionate plea that a father makes to his children as he comes alongside them and directs them concerning their spiritual lives. This same word is elsewhere translated as “beseech” or “comfort.” It gives the picture of the ongoing instruction that the father gives as he seeks to guide the child to understand the importance of faith and obedience.
 
Second, he “comforted” them. Complementing the father’s gentle pleas and exhortations were encouragement and consolations amid distresses or challenges that the child might face. The journey of sanctification is not always easy, and the Thessalonian Christians needed the right spiritual comfort to help them on their way.
 
Third, he “charged” them. This referred to a more direct, solemn instruction that was necessary to keep them in check. At times, such a stern approach is required to ensure that boundaries are not crossed and the right, non-negotiable injunctions from Scripture are adhered to.
 
Altogether, this is the way that a spiritual father leads his children, doing so in a manner that is affectionate yet authoritative. All fathers (and mothers too) will do well to learn from such an approach, that we can lovingly nurture our children in the fear and knowledge of the Lord.
 
In like manner, this is the role that spiritually mature leaders must assume over those whom God has placed under their charge. Coupled with the thoughts in 1 Thessalonians 2:8-10, they must endeavour to relate to those around them as a nursing mother, a dear friend, a dedicated teacher and also a loving father.
 
THOUGHT: Who should I be a “father” of?
PRAYER: Father, I thank Thee for the care and patience that Thou hast showered upon me as my loving heavenly Father.

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