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DEALING WITH THE DIFFICULT
TUESDAY, DECEMBER 16
1 Thessalonians 5:14

2 Thessalonians 3:6-15

 

“Warn them that are unruly,

comfort the feebleminded.”

 

DEALING WITH THE DIFFICULT
 
In any local church, there will be all sorts of people that come in through its doors. They bring with them their broken hearts, troubled spirits, and sinful pasts. Many of them are trying to find peace and comfort, and a solution to the problem of sin that plagues their souls. As a church, do we know how to help in the right way, such that they can come to Christ and find the solution to all their woes?
 
In verse 14, Paul described various groups of potentially difficult people and briefly explained how the church ought to deal with them. Note that he addressed the “brethren,” and not just the church leaders. First, he exhorted them concerning the “unruly.” This is a military term used to describe soldiers who do not keep in rank. These are the people walking disorderly (2 Thess 3:6), who are in sin, having deviated from that which is moral and upright. The church is called to admonish them, to warn them of their disobedience and direct them to Christ. If they are unbelievers, part of the Gospel presentation is to warn them of the seriousness of sin and the need for repentance. If they are believers, as fellow brothers and sisters-in-Christ, the church must have the courage to sound this important warning and restore them in their walk with God. It is indeed selfish and unloving to see a brother who is unruly, and remain silent!
 
Next, there are those who are “feebleminded” or fainthearted. This refers to those who are timid or who are discouraged by various circumstances. They are those who are weaker in their faith, and may not be so assured of the promises of God. When problems arise in their lives, they are easily shaken and may doubt God and be full of anxiety and cares. They would require more encouragement and support. The church must be on the lookout for such ones and direct them to look to God and His Word. It will not be easy, and may not always yield immediate results, but it is necessary and must be done in love. It will require much energy, time and effort, and further follow-up in the future. Yet, this is what we must do for one another as we seek to comfort one another.
 
THOUGHT: Which is harder – warning or comforting?
PRAYER: Father, may Thou grant me the love and compassion for those who are struggling and lost.

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