NOVEMBER 5, Hebrews 3:13

“Meng, listen to me say this verse,” said John, as he helped a neighbour learn a memory verse for Sunday School. He recited each word slowly. “Okay, now see if you can repeat it,” said John. Meng tried to repeat the verse, but he stumbled over unfamiliar words. At first, John tried to help him with them, but after several attempts, he scowled. “You’re hopeless,” he said. “Take your book and go home and practise.”

As the boys stood up, John saw his mom in the doorway. A frown replaced her usual smile.“How long have you been there?” asked John.“Long enough,” replied Mom. She smiled at Meng. “Come over anytime, Meng.”

After Meng left, Mom turned to John. “I’m disappointed with your attitude toward Meng,” she said. “His family just migrated to Singapore from China, his English is not the same standard as kids his age, and that is why he needs more help and encouragement.” “Okay. Sorry,” mumbled

John, and he turned to go outside.

Later that day, John’s parents spread pictures across the table. “These were taken before, during, and after the Hilton Hotel construction,” said Dad. “I need to choose photos to use in my newspaper article about the project.”

John picked up a picture. “I like this one,” he said. “You can see the entire old building and the crane.” He pointed to dates stamped on some of the pictures. “Wow! They tore down the old building in only a week?” he said. “Didn’t it take over a year to build the new one?”

“Yes, it did,” replied Dad. “Unfortunately, it’s generally easier to tear down than to build up in almost any area of life, not just in construction.” Mom nodded. “For example, we often find it easier to criticise people for what they do wrong than to praise them for their good qualities,” she said. She looked at John, and he remembered how impatient he had been with Meng. He suspected that Mom was remembering that too.

“Which reminds me, I need to call a colleague I work with and congratulate him on a promotion,” said Dad. “I think I’ll invite him to church tomorrow too.”“And I need to call Meng,” said John quickly, “and help him learn a verse.”

Thought: Do your words and attitude encourage others?

Prayer: Heavenly Father, help me to remember that if someone is struggling with something, I must patiently try to help him. And if someone does well in a certain area, I should congratulate him. Help me to encourage others.. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.