Mar 2

Genesis 24:1-27
Memorise Genesis 24:27
“I being in the way, the LORD led me”

Finding a suitable godly spouse is probably one of the most important decisions that you would make in your lifetime. It can make a difference between a lifetime of bliss and happiness, or a lifetime of sorrow and regret. It is a decision that cannot be taken lightly or flippantly, or one just based on superficial attractions. Abraham was well aware of this, and was likely quite concerned about his son. Although Isaac was nearly 40 years old by now, he still had not found a wife. Perhaps it was because he was too attached to his mother and was still mourning for her death, that he did not seek to find a wife for himself (Genesis 24:67). Abraham thus assigned his eldest servant to find a wife for his son. Through the instructions from Abraham and the actions of his servant, we see a very good example of how one applies spiritual principles to make wise godly decisions.

Abraham was very sensitive to the will and desire of God. From the very onset, Abraham was adamant that Isaac’s wife must not be a Canaanite, for they were ungodly heathen who did not worship God. He wanted a God-fearing daughter-in-law who was from his own people. Therefore he made his servant swear by the LORD that the woman of choice would be from Abraham’s own kindred in the city of Nahor, also known as Haran, the city founded by Abraham’s brother. In this we see the important principle, of always following God’s desire and will, that we do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).

As the servant set off, he was conscious to commit this whole matter to the Lord in prayer (Genesis 24:12). He knew that the only way in which he could have success in this search, was that the Lord would be the one leading him. He also established godly criteria for the woman that he would meet, that she would be a helpful, hospitable lady who would be willing to draw water not just for him to drink, but also for his 10 camels! When such a lady did indeed appear before him, by faith he realised that the hand of God was indeed guiding him. He was continually conscious of the fact that God was in control (Genesis 24:21). Finally when it was confirmed that she was indeed a lady who met all the criteria set, and was of Abraham’s kindred, he was quick to bless the Lord and give all glory to Him, declaring that “I being in the way, the LORD led me” (Genesis 24:27)

Thought: What factors do I consider when I make my decisions?
Prayer: Lord, grant me the wisdom to make godly choices in my life.